This is the Devil working! We watched as the officers threw our dishes out of the cabinets And onto the floor, the clothes from the washer onto the floor, And every drawer was dumped on the floor. They thank God didnt take her. In most cases (states) if youre still residing with your husband who allegedly committed the offenses for which he is being charged, then as his wife and the biological mother of your child you will also be involved in the case. And I just dont understand. Then about the drugs, other states have legalized it which is ridiculous to me how Cps sees things. My advice to anyone dealing with the CPS system is to not cooperate answer with I dont know or I am sorry I am unable to help. WE were the only family blood related relatives standing up and trying to get her placed with us. subpoena! theyll try to block the parental rights to get medical information about their kids. My daughter filed a petition over 2mths ago to get the baby they told her she had to have a home check and fingerprints which she did everything checked out but still nothing my granddaughter should be with family but they treat us like we are nothing. These checks, including State and Federal criminal records and child abuse and neglect central registries, are part of the process of assessing the suitability of these . An they took him. A certified copy of the birth certificate must be provided to the court after an adoption petition has been filed so that it can be sealed in the child's adoption court file after finalization. My husband has a 10 year old girl cps in Ohio visited the 10 year old at school but never came to mothers house its been a week now. My son said he switched his words up he said he was stressed out because the girlfriend was screaming at him and he put a belt around his neck because he was tired of everyone fighting over custod,, but he did tell them a time where my boyfriend made them stand in corners and was yelling at me in a room because the kids where not listening and got me with a guitar, the whole hitting me with a guitar NEVER happen!!!! With the mothers agreement to allow contact if she can be the one to supervise and control who can be present during visits etc, can refile to terminate rights if she gets mad that he wont agree to terminate rights, and refiles, wouldnt it be obvious to the Court, her issue isnt about not allowing contact with the children, and if she was willing to supervise his time regardless of whether he was doing drugs or not, why would the court not let father pay for an outside agency to supervise his time instead of mother rather than terminating his rights? Everyone deserves a second chance but their second chance almost resulted in the death of a 2 year old child. I got taken away from cps as a child in kinder. at all. So cps does drug screens as a procations for whatever reason? Fast forward to a few months ago, I report abuse/neglect for a different child involving my second ex. Please dont assume that just because weed is now legal here, CPS is not going to care. I hope you can get this straightened out. Well she told them she would do it but they wanted her own family and so she would never be free of them and we all know once they use you they own you also a year in a week my older sister took herself out to its been tought to handle cause she also left her twins behind same age I was when my mom died also so I know how theyre doing and going thru. Me and my sons grandma got in a big fight before she took my son beacuse he was faluire to thriv do to the goats milk she talked me into putting him on so when my doctors told me that i took him off and gave him what the doctors said to and grandma got mad fighting with me on what to give him.. We still werent getting along but i still let her see him then she filed papers and got custody then took him back to his dr and she said he was still falurie to thrive and she called cps on the grandma not me. The past is the past, wht matter is here and now and the future and everyones progress. If available, the adoption petition should include written consent from the birth mother and biological father. Have the caseworkers contacted you again yet? I was just informed I can start supervised visits after I go to trauma therapy for my own childhood abuse. I need help. Adoption assistance is available, but is not intended to cover the actual costs of raising a child. Things are changing in todays society like other states legalizing marijuana and so on. I am sure this advice is most likely too late, but I too had a d.v. seven years old?! Linda, write to your doctors office to get all medical records for your baby. If you are guilty of something, admit it at least to yourself and be reasonable in your judgements about your current situation. Elixisy so, do you still have your children? please let me know what else i can do to help my case. If not their dad should be able to though although they could use the incarceration against him. in our case they said they would leave the children in my care only to show up 4 days later to remove them. They will mislead you every step of the way. Some attars want to just talk for a few minutes in the court hall way that may be interrupted and that is not private. Tina, I hope you can find your children. Since that time, the mom and stepdad have been completing the courses that dss has put them through. they will also send petitions and claim theyre court orders . she wanted me to say this happened! These new parents are committing the court and, more importantly, to that child, that they will be there to provide whatever that child needs moving forward from a well-being standpoint. You have nothing to fear if they are the wonderful people you think they are. Please do same for me ? They placed them with their Dads Mom and stepdad and they just dont want their son to have to pay support. I cant have my 4 grandchildren due to my husbands felony 30 years ago. So if you talk or visit or text someone cps can keep your kids? it takes the case out of court. Unfortunately; this just happened to my husband who recently went to court with a high power attorney trying to obtain custody of my two grand daughters. The caseworker got all in my face grunting her teeth. Records dating back 8 -10 yrs or more, and especially those that are unsubstantiated should never be used against kinship. They split families and ruin childrens lives. My son fractured his leg while I was at work, and my son was with my fiance. These corrupt people will turn things around you the one trying to PROTECT your child! So long as the kinship care requirement is being met, it doesnt matter which relative is chosen. Im not sure what to do. I need advice my husband and I had our rights terminated and our daughter was adopted I didnt have Atty .till the termination hearing is there a way now to get her back. The caseworkers are working against you and just want to win their cases. they will use any excuse to give the children to their chosen person. The worker said since my sister was honest about everything, her previous drug use, rehab, the charges she had caught while in active addiction, and made the call her self that as long as we were ok with it would recommend the kids remain in our home under our care. He did not agree, which made her mad, she refiled to terminate his rights again, based on her allegations of drug use. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I am the parent who had a case over 10 years ago. The idea is that the termination of parental rights stays with the parents forever, so they have no right to any future babies they have. If she ever looks at the message your message folder should tell you that. for instance I lost my child TPR in florida I could move to another state and start over what about using medicaid for another state can they track you and would it be better to have private insurance my case has been over 3 years, to ad to that comment I lost my 2 others I was tricked in signing them over and was told I could have visitation and keep my new born they lied and took her I fought hard in court but the judge would not hear not even a case plan i just want to live normal again i have been drug free 3 years moved to a diff state and now Im pregnant I just want my baby to be able to walk out with him and start my life again. I hope youre not giving this person money after she changed her mind the first time. Learn how your comment data is processed. I believe the girlfriend left her flat irons on or something it dont look like fall. Lindsey, yes, they could investigate you again. I am going through the same situation with my grandson. And my two childrenwhom are now grown men ages 21 and 23..? It is devastating that with all the parenting classes you take We involved in CIDS healthy familiesand not once have they contacted her doctor and checked up on anything about her when they constantly say they have a best interest and our baby clearly theyre not working and see the baby. Just be careful to stay clean because if the same thing happened again you probably would have a hard time getting your kids back. I signed my two boys away and agreed to an open adoption my my third child. he makes up lies to cps about me and says were together. I love my kids more than life its self I would never do anything to harm them ! And I had a restraining order in the past and didnt have to show any proof. I am trying to get my name removed from the list. I do not pick up their calls so I have it all on voicemail. cps is trying to say that im mentally uncapable of taking care of a child,which isnt true and they never even bothered to try to prove otherwise. Lets not stay quiet anymore. We just want our family back how it was before I started using. It is important to distinguish grandparent adoption from the more common scenario of grandparent guardianship or custody. Did you go to court? Qquori please contact a private family lawyer and get a free consultation and get your questions answered. Do you get visitations? Cps said to call back in a few weeks to arrange a meeting. In the report was never brought up but about a month later I got a letter in the mail stating that I was founded for neglect. I say that for you and for all parents who are separated from their children. Are you working on a case plan? The judges last words to me is (YELLING AT ME) that he will not speak to me without an attorney present and Good luck finding an attorney by Tuesday and even then Im the one who makes the decision on her placement and you are not being considered! Why would he yell at me?? Hi my name is lectrica and i have three kids and i have a cps case over and over out the year well i got a case taking my son to get help from the hospil and i told them the things he was doing in the pass that i already told cps and they call on me any ways and they are keeping the case open what can i do can you help me i even reported it to the police i dont know what to do. Give it to Jesus, I question our higher power cause why all my family members and not me Ive been worse than my whole family but I have to say their has to be something that I am supposed to do cause trusting what I say should have been me in a casket, but please dont give up on them you know are the only person who they can have to fight for them never ever sign anything ever!!! Your email address will not be published. I wrote a letter to the judge asking him to review my concerns with cps taking placement away and giving it my sons father. Understanding the Benefits of a Prenuptial Agreement for Anyone, Common Questions About Texas Prenuptial And Marital Agreements, What to Do When Your Spouse is Spying on You, Legalities of Spying on Childs Cell Phone in Texas, Cell Phones, Mail, Computers - Spying on Your Spouse, Do I Need to Change My Passwords For a Divorce, Couples Currently Going Through a Divorce Webinar, Individuals Who Recently Divorced Webinar, Trust Administration & Probate Legal Services. When there is a CPS case involved with your family, life can feel out of control. And she wants to terminate his rights. This means that, compared to other kinds of civil case appeals, your case should be handled quicker. How is it that your ex knows this thing and you dont? I stayed calm and collective and kept positive for my sons healing, which is working. March 31, 2015, my ex, continuing on her path of DV, assaulted me once again while I was trying to escape her wrath with our son in tow. The dv was brought up again because I went back with my sons dad an we had another son an we are together so now there are child abuse allegations to both me and him and dv now my daughters are also saying we do drugs and now we need to drug test. If possible see an attorney for help. Im telling you it does NOT matter if anything is dismissed even in criminal cases! And can the hospital contact DCF just because I have a history with them? Thank you. You can also record all conversations with them. If they wanted you to have the children they would probably ignore the rule. So stay strong for your children during the CPS case, but also prepare yourself and your life for seeing them again as adults, even if they arent with you as children. As they did this, the social worker took pictures of all of this. I did everything CPS wanted and got the case closed a couple months after. So sorry you are in so much pain, Rachel. Meconium, umbilical or placental) If so to either question, what were the results? Thus if you are a grandparent who had a CPS investigation done on you 15 years in the past, your name was probably added to your states Central Registry a blacklist of people whose names were made known to CPS sometime in the past. The paternal grandma has them, Im not sure if the adoption has been finalized but even if their cases are closed for a couple years is there really any way I could appeal and try to get them back? Im not saying you a Bad Parent or putting you down. But in my court papers, she states that my home had laundry that needed to be done all over, and dishes piled up in the sink. From that point the madness that has ensued is a nightmaremy mother proceeded to call my bosses who go to our church and I was also renting a car from and told them lies stating that Im on drugs and in turn they fired me and took the car away one day after my parents kicked me out! then fails again a month the later!! If they think you two will reconcile they will take the children away from the mother probably permanently. (SSIS Training Module-Adoption) Review the file for a certified copy of the child's birth certificate. if you have fact now is the time to speak up of the abuse. Are you enrolled in NA? ljm]. Then even willing to pick me up at whatever my location was at to meet with cps and cps still hasnt even contacted me themselves that day. . They said if i would have taken them to trial and lost it would b like i was never their mother so i didnt want to take that chance i love my babiea too much to lose all contact with them. Can somebody help me please??? i dont know what to do about all of this. Leave the state your in and dont tell the next place you go where your from and dcf involvement or any kids taken low profile no red flags give no reason to call dcf. Please help me Im going to see if I can find an attorney. I've thought about trying to contact a lawyer in a different }, { I also hired Vince Davis. Karma, Hair follicles do not go back years only 6mos at best. I just got carried away in a moment of stress and frustration. I have no history of abuse and court put me on 6 months probation and anger management with no contact for 2 years with the step son. I spanked my kids in an unconventional manner which I do regret but it was how I was raised. I know a lot about what you are saying cause i was taking hidracodone and when i went in laybor i had just taken a few but i was positive and my baby was not so bad thing with taking them off the street and I was also its just about the same thing as illegal drugs and if your not willing to get help in rehab then you will have to get them puscribed to you from doctor cause they wouldnt have let me take my new born little innocent baby home unless her father passed a test and he had to miss work and supervise me with my own babys so just got to see the doctor and they look like the dumbest person ever cause as long as you have a doctor who can give you the narcotics than what can they say thats what I did got a doctor so they had to drop my case and I dont miss them at all!! When a pysch exam was required of me, I refused to use the evaluator the state recommended and used one of my own. Crazy situation. Trust me that will only do more harm then good, & you definitely dont want your daughter to end up resenting you later on. This is all new to me so I have a few things im not understanding.. 1. I was forced to return him to her on 4/3/15. We help provide these children with everything because they came with nothing. I show them her texts to me telling me to confess or my child would go to foster care. Did the hospital test your newborn immediately following birth? I have had 4 previous kids and I release my rights on them voluntarily. Me and my closest brother grew up angry and unloved and unguided. No still havent been able to get these false reports cleared! They are more likely, statistically, to come to harm in state care than they were with their mother. I must admit though that now two years later, with two successfully completed case plans, I am facing CPS again over a fight between my 7 and 9 year old daughters at school where they had questioned the children on their learned behavior and coaxed them into stating they had seen it in us I wont be given services a third time and dont know what to do. Social have took my partners kids from her and are only expected to return in feb but they are trying there best to keep us apart and saying that if she has any contact with me it will reduce her chances of getting them back, all I would like to know is if they can do this and can they pull up text messages that are on pay as you go. dealing with false alegations, any help would be appresiated. That was two months ago. please help me , my dads family has money and knows some great lawyers here in florida, will it be possible to get them bak, if not by me what about by their dad? Tears of a bleeding for her children. Tell your attorney you want more visits, overnight, unsupervised, etc quick reunification. Would you, mind me asking where your from? I have requested a new case manager for some reason I cant have a new one. The FIRST visit was a week before the holidays. Two kids have epilepsy and when we finally got them into the dr she (the dr) was relieved they werent with mom anymore because she kept canceling appointments. she has done this b4. As it relates to Texas Child Protective Services cases, adoption is to create a parent-child relationship between a child and his/her adoptive parent(s). im none of those names he calls me It was no surprise to me but I knew childrens father were making these reports. While Im sure that youre understandably scared, overwhelmed and experiencing a wide range of emotional reactions to your predicament; I must emphasize that you remain calm and provide as much detail as possible thatll allow me to make a timely response with recommendations that are circumstantially relevant.

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